Thoughts from the perimeter of prematurity
Research says that 80% of premature aging is related to sun damage, but I think it's responsiblity that does it.
When you feel responsible (even if it's misplaced, out-of-proportion, or connected to the idea that other people can't manage without your input), the truth is that when you're feeling responsible, you're usually not feeling great, zingy or inspired. Chances are you're feeling burdened, serious, driven or overwhelmed.
And often, the more responsible you feel, the less great you feel, and the more your face tenses into that squinty mask of concern known as premature aging.
It's kind of interesting that, in our culture, people who refuse to take on the burdens of others are considered immature, irresponsible or self-absorbed. But dang, they look good.
The expression "It's not how you look, it's how you feel" contains flawed logic. Because how you look is how you feel.
I'm fairly sure this train of thought has a destination but I may not recognize it until I've gone two stops past it. Fortunately the ticket was free.